What a place this is, southern France. It is very different from my first impression in Paris. Near the Mediterranean, the weather and the people are warm. Greetings are exchanged between everyone in close proximity and it seems to be common place for you to get out of your car and directly ask someone on the street (or the driver behind you) for directions several times in one trip. But this place is not exactly heaven either. Driving in France often feels as if you are taking your life into your hands. At least that is how it feels as a passenger. As far as I know, everyone seems to know what they are doing, but the fact that the traffic laws are fast, loose, and rarely enforced can make a foreigner feel just a touch uneasy. And the skinny roads don’t help either!
This region is very beautiful, though. An excursion through the countryside allowed me to see the orchards of olive trees and wine vineyards. Crumbling old buildings and even some ruins peppered the landscape. My aunt took me to see a couple of the oldest remaining villages in the region and it felt like I was in some romantic movie as I walked the small lanes between centuries old houses, shops, and monasteries. My aunt told me that in the summer these places are crawling with tourists so I was glad that I was there at a much more quiet time. The towns that we visited are called Les Matalles and St. Guilhem.
The other day my aunt, uncle, and two cousins took me to see the Mediterranean Sea, a specific request of mine since they live very close. It was gorgeous, as expected, the only thing missing was the sunshine. It has been quite cloudy, but the humidity of this place keeps the air warm. In fact I have been constantly hot while my family believes it is very cold. Spending time in Holland before coming here did me no favors! I am completely unprepared for the heat, humidity, and Palm trees. And yet everyone here is bundled up in coats and scarves!
I am so glad that I decided to learn Spanish. My family here does not know very much English. Their main languages are French, Spanish, and Farsi (my aunt being Persian and my uncle Chilean). Thus, Spanish has been our go-to language for almost everything, except when my aunt and cousins want to practice their English a little. Before coming here I thought my Spanish skills were severely lacking, but having had this opportunity to use it so much I feel that I really underestimated myself. All I needed was to put it to use to get the hang of it. Of course, it is not perfect fluency, but there aren’t many misunderstandings nonetheless.
My aunt and I and our day touring the surrounding villages.
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Tired after our day at the coast.
My cousins Sacha (right) and Thibault (left)